To build a good interpersonal relationship we need to make a best quality of our communication. There are some factors which effecting interpersonal communication. They are trust, supportive behavior and be open.
1. Trust : when we feel we are safe and we won’t be hurt by others when we share information and secrets. Values that needed when we want to be trust are honest, reliable and consistent. Having a good position or status will make others to trust you because having a high position means bring more responsibility. To the point when talking is also important. After saying the purposes and hopes people will trust you and a good quality of communication will grow.
2. Supportive behavior and be open : when we can give messages, feelings and perception without looking at the negative points. Become objective is also a good values of supportive behavior. Talking about problems with problem oriented not person oriented, so you can work together to find the way out not ending with gossiping other’s negative points. Looking everyone as the same person as human, we should not judge other people bad because we can’t feel the same life like others. Everyone has their own life’s problem. Respect to other people opinion and want to do self-introspection show professionalism of yourself.
Working together as a team and having a good supportive spirit is a good way to improve our interpersonal communication. Interpersonal communication will decrease by ego and shy feeling. So self confident is important to build a good interpersonal communication with other people.
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